The kind of words used to communicate with another is very powerful in shaping how we view, and judge, ourselves. Or, in a bigger picture, how we view the world. Words express our values and ideas. Words reinforce our attitudes and shape our behaviour.
Words are powerful. They can hurt just as much as being physically hit. Words are living energy and active, sharper than any double-edged sword. They can penetrate even to dividing soul and spirit. Words are subtle reflection of our heart.
Unfortunately, for many of us, we allow words to become a fashion statement. We feel 'in' when we repeat common used words. We allow our life force energy to engage these words without realising how it can affect into our psychological auric fields. How it will influence our dominant thought and become our attitudes. Letting them to shape our circumstances and formed a sub-conscious perspective.
Words, when we speak or write them, carry meaning and energy from ourselves to another person or group of people. Each word has a life of its own. A vibratory signature that creates waves in the same way a note in music creates waves.
When asked, "How are you?" and you get a "ok lor" answer, do you feel the lose conviction in our soul? Do you feel a sense of peace or otherwise? Is there joy or a barrage of noncommittal attitude?
Another question "So, what do you want to do next?" and the answer "Anything lor" or "Ok lah, whatever".
Imagine, when you are buying food and you tell the seller "anything" or "whatever", what and how do you expect the seller to serve you? The same when you reply to the waitress in the restaurant. Or your mother when she asks for your opinion? How do we expect to be served and to get what we want?
We strive for a good, happy, peaceful and abundant life but we don't keep our words in check. We are not letting the energy of words to infuse in us. To become the magnet to attract all things well. Unconsciously, we allow words to manipulate and inflame our souls. We allow a powerful influence on the thought process and, more likely, to be absorbed into negativity.
Our words live in communities of other words and change in relations to the words that surround them. When we are conscious of the energy behind our words, we become capable to take charge of our lives. When we are unconscious of the power of words, we run the risk of creating disharmony and imbalance.
Our destiny is often sabotaged from the words we use. Those words, without us knowing, that shape our world and the thought of others. Repetition is the mother of learning and the more we empowered these words, spoken with emotional convictions [consciously or unconsciously], we become it.
Pause, and just observe, the many 'Lor' used. Or the 'wassup'. Feel the energy. Feel how these words reverberate in our bodies and in the air around us. After awhile, instinctively, we may find the vibratory impact and the level of energy they contain.
We should not blame fate when we are refusing to take charge of our daily words. We need to, consciously, realize that words have incredible power. They can heal or hurt, motivate or demoralize, persuade or prevent actions.
"Hey, yes, wassup?", even used amicably when someone answering your calls reflects a duality in social cohesion. There is a subtle energy of dominance. When this word is empowered, over and over again, it conditions the mind. It sets the disparity, creating unconscious divisional energy and breaks down the relational perspective for effective transactional analysis.
Abundance, and accomplishment, is said to be everywhere. We are just a moment away from getting all that we desire. It is our own fault when we fail to get it. Our attitude, with every spoken words, toward our future spell the difference between succumbing to disaster or triumphing over the odds. Words have critical implication for survival. They determine how we act to shape our individual and collective destinies.
Words are cheap. Don't let them be any cheaper. Don't let them slip away not granting us with power of living.
"Ok lor, up to you now lor"